Angazi noma abazali bathole yini ukuthi lapho ingane ineminyaka engaba ngu-2 ubudala, izoba nesithakazelo ngokukhethekile kuma-excavators.Ikakhulukazi, umfana angase angakwazi ukugxila ekudlaleni imidlalo ngezikhathi ezivamile, kodwa lapho ehlangana nomshini wokumba osebenzayo emgwaqeni, imizuzu engu-20 yokubuka ayanele.Akugcinanga lapho, kodwa nezingane ziyawathanda namathoyizi emoto yobunjiniyela njengama-excavators.Uma abazali bebabuza ukuthi yini abafuna ukuyenza lapho sebekhulile, bangase bathole impendulo ethi "excavator driver".
Kungani izingane emhlabeni wonke zibonakala zithanda ama-excavators?Esiteshini sikaphethiloli sangempelasonto, umhleli uzoxoxa nabazali mayelana nolwazi oluncane ngale “nsizwa enkulu”.I-digger ingasiza futhi abazali baqonde kangcono ingaphakathi lengane.
Kungani izingane zithanda ama-excavators?
1. Ukwanelisa "isifiso sokubhubhisa" somntwana
Ku-psychology, abantu banolaka ngokwemvelo futhi bayalimaza, futhi umfutho "wokucekela phansi" uvela kumzwelo wemvelo.Isibonelo, imidlalo eminingi yevidiyo abantu abadala abathanda ukuyidlala ayinakuhlukaniswa nokubhekana nokuhlasela.
"Ukubhujiswa" kungenye yezindlela zokuthi izingane zihlole umhlaba.Abazali bangathola ukuthi lapho izingane ezineminyaka engu-2 ubudala zidlala ngamabhulokhi wokwakha, azisaneliseki ngobumnandi bamabhulokhi wokwakha.Bakhetha ukusunduza phansi amabhlogo wokwakha ngokuphindaphindiwe.Ukushintsha komsindo nesakhiwo sezinto okubangelwa ukusunduza phansi amabhlogo wokwakha kuzoshukumisa umntwana ukuba abone ngokuphindaphindiwe, futhi kumenze akwazi ukuthola umuzwa wenjabulo nempumelelo.
Ngalesi sikhathi, izingane zabonisa isithakazelo esikhulu kumathoyizi akhiphekayo futhi zithanda ukuwavula nokuwaphendula.Lokhu kuziphatha "okulimazayo" empeleni kuwukubonakaliswa kokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nokucabanga kwezingane.Baqonda ukwakheka kwezinto ngokuqaqa nokuhlanganisa okuphindaphindiwe, futhi bahlole ubudlelwano obuyimbangela bokuziphatha.
Indlela umgodi osebenza ngayo namandla ayo amakhulu okucekela phansi kwanelisa “isifiso sokubhujiswa” somntwana ngokomzwelo, futhi lesi “silo” esikhulu esingenza umsindo obhongayo singavusa kalula ilukuluku lomntwana futhi sihehe amehlo abo.
2. Umuzwa wokulawula namandla afana nesifiso somntwana
Ngemva kokuzicabangela kwengane kuhluma, izothanda ikakhulukazi ukuthi "ungakwenzi" futhi ngokuvamile ilwa nabazali bayo.Ngezinye izikhathi, ngisho noma ezimisele ukulalela abazali bakhe, kufanele athi “ungakwenzi” kuqala.Kulesi sigaba, umntwana ukholelwa ukuthi angenza konke njengabazali bakhe.Ufuna ukwenza yonke into yedwa.Uzama ukuthola ukuzimela ngezenzo ezithile futhi afakazele ikhono lakhe kubazali bakhe.
Ngomqondo wokulawula izinto ezizungezile, umntwana uyozizwa engumuntu ozimele.Ngakho-ke, esigabeni sokulangazelela umuzwa wokulawula namandla, umntwana ukhangwa kalula amandla aboniswa yi-excavator.UDkt. Carla Marie Manly, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseMelika, ukholelwa ukuthi isizathu esenza abantwana bathande izinhlobo zamathoyizi ezinto ezinkulu kakhulu kungase kube ukuthi banomuzwa onamandla wokulawula namandla omuntu siqu ngokuba nalezi zinguqulo ezincane.
Eqinisweni, abazali bangathola ukuthi izingane azinasithakazelo kuphela kuma-excavators, njengama-dinosaurs, i-Monkey King, ama-superheroes, amakhosazana akwa-Disney, kodwa futhi athande lezi zithombe ezinamandla noma ezinhle.Ikakhulukazi lapho ingena esigabeni sokuhlonza (imvamisa ineminyaka engaba ngu-4), ingane ngokuvamile izodlala noma icabange ukuthi ingumlingiswa oyintandokazi noma isilwane.Ngenxa yokuthi umntwana akazange aqongelele ulwazi olwanele namakhono lapho ephishekela ukuzimela, futhi ukukhula kwakhe ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo akukavuthwa, ngeke akwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi.Futhi izithombe ezihlukahlukene kumakhathuni noma emisebenzini yemibhalo zingavele zihlangabezane nezidingo zazo ezingokwengqondo zokuba namandla futhi zibe zinkulu, futhi zingaletha umntwana umuzwa wokulondeka.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Sep-22-2022